Cyberbullying: Recognising, Preventing, and Taking Action

Cyberbullying is a form of bullying that happens online or through digital devices like phones, tablets, and computers. It often takes place on social media platforms, messaging apps, gaming forums, or other online spaces. This guide will help you understand cyberbullying, how to prevent it, and what steps to take if you or someone you know experiences it.

What is Cyberbullying?

Cyberbullying involves the use of technology to harm, intimidate, or embarrass others. It can include:
  • Sharing mean or false messages about someone.
  • Posting private or personal information to humiliate someone
  • Sending threats or hurtful comments repeatedly.

Unlike face-to-face bullying, cyberbullying can follow someone wherever they go, making it especially harmful.

The Effects of Cyberbullying

The impact of cyberbullying can be serious and long-lasting, affecting mental, emotional, and physical wellbeing. It can lead to:
  • Feelings of isolation or low self-esteem.
  • Anxiety, stress, or depression.
  • Self-harm or, in extreme cases, suicidal thoughts.

Recognising these effects early is crucial for seeking help and support.

How to Prevent Cyberbullying

Preventing cyberbullying starts with creating safer online habits and fostering a respectful digital culture. Here are some tips:

  • Be Cautious Online: Think carefully about what you share and who you share it with.
  • Secure Your Accounts: Use strong passwords and keep them private.
  • Report and Block: Use platform tools to report inappropriate behaviour and block harmful users.
  • Pause Before Posting: If it’s not kind or respectful, don’t post it.

By promoting kindness and understanding online, we can help prevent harmful interactions.

Responding to Cyberbullying

If you’re facing cyberbullying, or see it happening to someone else, follow these steps:

  • Do Not Engage: Avoid replying or retaliating, as it can escalate the situation.
  • Keep Records: Save screenshots or copies of harmful messages as evidence.
  • Report It: Notify the platform where the bullying occurred or report it to a trusted adult.
  • Speak Up: Share your concerns with a parent, teacher, or school counsellor.

Remember, you don’t have to deal with cyberbullying alone—there are people and services that can help.

Seeking Help

If cyberbullying is affecting you or someone you know, don’t hesitate to ask for help. Trusted adults, teachers, or school counsellors are there to support you. If the situation feels dangerous, contact the police immediately.

Conclusion

Everyone has the right to feel safe and respected online. By understanding cyberbullying and knowing how to prevent and respond to it, we can build a positive and supportive digital world.

Additional Resources

For further advice and support, visit:

  • Netsafe NZ: Comprehensive resources on preventing and addressing cyberbullying.
Taking action against cyberbullying starts with awareness and a commitment to fostering a kinder online community.